lies,

when someone tells you how they are listen. but its always better to match the actions. it may not be serious to some.but with so little things of value on this plain  your word and character represent you and it sometimes takes a life time to build and a few short hours to tear down. so if your ever dealing with someone. just be upfront. say what you want tell the other person what your situation is and let them make the choice if they want to be involved with you. its makes things so much better in the long run.