DISRESPECT

how does one deal with disrespect in a relationship. my usual step it i will tell you about what i am not happy about and if it keeps getting done i make plans to leave. and then execute. this last issue i had hurt me a bit because i feel kinda fast even tho all of the warning signs where there. sweet one min nasty and insulting the next. or if he got uspest he would recite all of his feelings out loud as if he had it to do all over again. the first couple of times it happened he apologized and i blew it off. then it just got worse. now i am usually a calm person. and the older i get me and the drama do not dance anymore. i usually say what i have to say and keep it moving. but when someone gets you to the point where you only see red and you want to physically assalt them its time to go. i don't condone violence but sometimes people don't understand untill you lay hands. but i took the higher road and walked away. he called and asked i confirmed and its over. to be in love to me takes time i can have love for you in a day but it takes some years and some some serious time together to be in love. now on several occasions i have found my past kings and men that i truly feel that i was with before. in another life. they are not the one i was made for in this life. he is still not within my grasp. but i know a violent relationship is NOT what it will be.